Custom Lavender Sapphire Ring in Gold

The Custom Lavender Sapphire Ring in Gold is for anyone who forgets their to-do list when it rains, who writes postcards and never sends them, who once learned origami just to fold fortunes for their friends. Designing your own lavender sapphire ring is the easiest part: pick a stone, pick your gold, pick a setting that feels right on your hand or just looks like fun.

Every custom lavender sapphire ring starts with a single, unhurried choice. Do you want a stone that looks like the first bruise on a peach, a cloud from a faded photograph or a drop of dusk before the streetlights flicker on? You don’t need to know much, just what calls you in that quiet, weird way.

Designing your own ring feels like making a wish and then watching it take shape. The hardest part? Deciding when to stop adding extra details, because there’s always another shade of lavender you haven’t seen yet.

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Sapphire

Sapphire is the September birthstone. This original love rock is a powerful stone to gather strength. Sapphire symbolizes wisdom, loyalty, and faith. She was once believed to protect your loved ones from harm.

Lavender sapphire meaning

Lavender sapphire stands for self acceptance, creative flow, and trust in the slow unfolding. The meaning of lavender sapphire is simple: tune in, soften your grip, let new ideas come as they are. It helps you see what’s really yours to keep and what’s ready to float away.

If you’re drawn to slow days, moonlit talks or the feel of clean sheets after a storm, lavender sapphire feels like home. It’s a gem for easing worry and opening up to what comes next. Lavender sapphire meaning is about gentle curiosity, quiet confidence, and seeing beauty where nobody else is looking.

Your custom lavender sapphire ring design

Metal

You can choose from 18 karat yellow gold, rose gold or white gold. We use 18 karat ethical gold, which is mined and processed with traditional, mercury free, low impact practices by indigenous Dayak women in Central Kalimantan, Indonesian Borneo, who receive fair pay. Our white gold is rhodium plated.

Ring size

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Setting

You can choose between a bezel setting, which has the gold all the way around the stone and a prong setting, where small claws hold the stone. Not sure which setting is right for you? Compare bezel vs prong setting here.

Lavender sapphire and diamond ring

Want to add some extra sparkle? Pave diamonds in the ring band can really elevate the look of your ring. Choose between salt and pepper diamonds (the rebellious budget option) or white diamonds (G-H color, SI clarity).

Conflict free diamonds

The diamonds used in this jewelry have been purchased from legitimate sources not involved in funding conflict and in compliance with United Nations resolutions. Based on personal knowledge and/or written guarantees provided by the supplier of these diamonds they are conflict free and mined in accordance with the Kimberley Process.

Gardens of the Sun goes beyond conflict free. Since our sourcing policy came into effect in November 2018 we only purchase diamonds from known origins. We avoid sourcing diamonds from Angola, Democratic Republic of Congo, Ivory Coast, Liberia, Russia (last purchased in 2019), Sierra Leone and Zimbabwe.

Engraving is on us

We offer complimentary engraving on the inside of your sapphire ring to personalize it even more. Our team will reach out to you after your purchase for details.

Lavender sapphires for you to choose from

CS8 - 0.39 ct oval sapphire in a soft lavender purple color, with peach and champagne undertones. A gemologist would classify this as fancy pink. Untreated. Measures 4.6 x 3.7 x 3.92 mm. Mined at the Eldorado Bar Mine in Helena, Montana, USA. Precision cut into an 8 mains oval cut by Renato Rossi in Rochester, Minnesota.

CS9 - 0.98 ct bicolor violet sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Fancy fan cut in Vermont by Scott Maier of Travelers Gems. No treatments, measures 5.5 x 5.5 x 3.8 mm.

CS10 - 1.15 ct hazy and pearly lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Custom cushion cut in Vermont by Scott Maier of Travelers Gems. Shades of lavender and pink. No treatments, measures 6.5 x 4.8 x 4.2 mm.

CS11 - 1.15 ct languid lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Custom geo pear cut in Vermont by Scott Maier of Travelers Gems. Hazy and pearly shades of lavender and pink. No treatments, measures 7.7 x 5.2 x 3.9 mm.

CS15 - 1.70 ct soft lavender pink sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The rough weighed 1.70 ct. Hexagon cut by female gemstone cutter Aruni at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. VVS quality, no treatments, measures 8.8 x 5.4 x 4.5 mm.

CS17 - 1.30 ct, octagon cut sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The rough weighed 2.94 ct. Cut by female gemstone cutter Aruni at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. Included quality, with needle inclusion, no treatments, measures 7 x 5.5 x 5.4 mm.

CS19 - 2.25 ct opalescent lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The rough weighed 4.43 ct. Fancy cut by female gemstone cutter Aruni at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. Silky with a beautiful opalescent glow. No treatments, measures 8.7 x 7.5 x 4.9 mm.

CS20 - 1.32 ct custom tablet cut lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Custom tablet cut in Vermont by Scott Maier of Travelers Gems. Mystic violet shade sapphire with needle and inclusion on one side. No treatments, measures 7.7 x 5.4 x 3.1 mm.

CS21 - 1.75 ct octagon step cut pale lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Cut in Vermont by Scott Maier of Travelers Gems. Silky and included, no treatments, measures 7.4 x 5.2 x 4 mm.

CS22 - 2.06 ct pentagon cut lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Fancy cut by female gemstone cutter Thushami at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. Soft lavender sapphire with a hint of cotton candy hue. Some golden needles and black pepper inclusions. No treatments, measures 8.5 x 7.4 x 5.4 mm.

CS23 - 3.00 ct custom cut rosy lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The rough weighed 5.70 ct. Fancy asymmetric cut by female gemstone cutter Aruni at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. Silky and included with some golden inclusions. No treatments, measures 10 x 7.5 x 4 mm.

CS24 - 1.55 ct lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The rough weighed 2.76 ct. Custom geo round cut by female gemstone cutter Samantha at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. Some cloudy silk and pits at the top and back, high table. Would look amazing in an open bezel setting. No treatments, measures 6.9 x 7 x 4.8 mm.

CS26 - 1.51 ct lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The rough weighed 3.03 ct. Improvised tablet kite cut by Michelle Mai in California. Lavender color with heavy hexagonal silk that gives it a mysterious glow. No treatments, measures 8.9 x 7.7 x 3.2 mm.

CS27 - 2.55 ct oval sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from Rigon, an artisanal miner of an indigenous Dayak tribe, who received fair pay. The rough weighed 4.71 ct. Fancy cut by female gemstone cutter Aruni at Paradise Gems, a women-owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. Icy blue, the softest purple, orange inclusions and a silky glow. Included quality, no treatments, measures 9.7 x 7.4 x 5.1 mm.

CS28 - 2.00 ct shield cut sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. The silky inclusions give it an ethereal and opalescent glow with lavender undertones. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The rough weighed 4.70 ct. Fancy six pointed shield cut by female gemstone cutter Thushami at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. Its shallow profile makes this lavender sapphire great for a low profile bezel setting. Excellent finger coverage! No treatments, measures 13.7 x 8.1 x 3.9 mm.

CS29 - 2.75 ct octagon cut baby blue sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. A silky light blue with lavender undertones. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Comes from a 9.60 ct rough sapphire split in two. Cut by female gemstone cutter Aruni at Paradise Gems, a women owned and operated cutting facility in Sri Lanka. No treatments, measures 7.2 x 7.3 x 6.1 mm.

CS30 - 2.14 ct pentagon cut sapphire, measures 9.4 x 6.5 x 5 mm trapeze cut by Aruni. Black inclusions.

CS31 - 0.33 ct round lavender sapphire from Sri Lanka. Morning frost that decorates a window, a mid December baby lightly tinted in lavender. Measures 4.4 x 4.4 x 2.4 mm.

CS32 - 0.56 ct oval lavender sapphire from Sri Lanka. A hint of hyacinth flirts through this sapphire, a flower in bloom smelling sweeter than sweet. Measures 5.5 x 4.5 x 2.7 mm.

CS34 - 0.70 ct round lavender sapphire from Sri Lanka. Promises of new beginnings and brighter days. Eye clean, measures 5.1 x 5.1 x 3.3 mm.

CS35 - 2.19 ct emerald cut lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Included, low profile cut. Cut in Thailand. Unheated, untreated. Measures 9.9 x 6.0 x 3.0 mm.

CS36 - 1.62 ct hexagon cut lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Some silk inclusions, low profile gemstone. Cut in Thailand from a 3.78 ct raw sapphire. Unheated, untreated. Measures 8.3 x 7.3 x 3.1 mm.

CS37 - 2.27 ct asymmetric lavender sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. Included with some silky bands. Cut from a 5 ct raw sapphire. Pentagon cut in Thailand. Unheated, untreated. Measures 10.4 x 8.5 x 3.1 mm.

CS38 - 1.75 ct custom cut lavender purple sapphire from Central Kalimantan, Indonesia. Ethically sourced from artisanal miners from an indigenous Dayak tribe who receive fair pay. The raw sapphire was a 3.85 ct chunk. Included, low profile custom cut in Thailand. Unheated, untreated. Measures 9.8 x 6.2 x 2.8 mm.

How We Make It

Handmade

Your gold lavender sapphire ring will be made to order, with a production time of 8 to 12 weeks. Since your custom lavender sapphire ring will be made especially for you, we offer no returns or refunds.

Free Mockups Beforehand

You can get up to three free mockups for your custom lavender sapphire ring in gold before we start making it. We’ll show you different layouts and sapphire placements so you can see what feels right. You can tweak the design until it matches your vision. No surprises, just a fully customized lavender sapphire ring that feels entirely yours.

Pictures when It's Done

Once your custom lavender sapphire ring is finished, we’ll send photos before it ships so you can make sure it’s everything you imagined. Please make sure our emails land in your inbox and not your spam folder to avoid delays.

Is it a lavender sapphire engagement ring?

Are you planning on using this as a lavender sapphire engagement ring? Ask us to keep the exact measurements of your sapphire. This way, if you decide to also get a wedding band or nesting band from us, we can help make sure it fits perfectly.

A lavender sapphire engagement ring marks a partnership built on patience, small kindnesses and a sense of wonder. This is for couples who share snacks, spot faces in clouds and know that the best conversations happen while folding laundry.

Choosing a lavender sapphire ring is a yes to love that lets you breathe, to a future that grows in its own rhythm and to a life together that’s a little softer at the edges and full of surprise.

Need any help?

Want advice on which sapphire to choose, some guidance with the design or a mock up before taking the plunge? Send us an email, and we'll help you on your way.

Any special requests for your ring band, stone angle or prong placement? Write them down in the box at checkout.